A few moments later Hein entered the officer's mess room and the captain now aware of the situation offered his condolences. During our conversation I assured Hein that we would pray for him and his family tomorrow in church. He appreciated that and left the mess room.
After lunch, as I left the mess room I met Hein waiting for me. He asked me if I had especially come to visit him. My answer was yes! He really appreciated that and told me that his father had already passed away two weeks prior but, that his family had not wanted to notify him with the terrible news. Last night while skyping with a friend he finally received the bad news. Being the oldest of five sons, Hein is now the main bread winner for his family. I asked him if he is going home soon to visit the family. Since this is his first voyage as a third officer he will not consider that option. He hopes to go home after five months when his contract is up.
It was a reality check for me again as to how privileged we are in this part of the world. After hearing the news of my brother's death I was able to fly to the Netherlands the very next day!
After walking with me to the gang way, Hein suggested that we be photographed together. I gave him our website address so he can read the story and see the pictures. I wish him God's blessing and the comfort we find in Christ Jesus.
